I could not be more embarrassed, disappointed, and angry that my home-state of North Carolina decided to ADD discrimination and bigotry to our State Constitution. I’ll ignore the politics of putting a state constitutional amendment on a primary ballot, in effect guarantying a low voter turnout and making such a significant change easier to affect. I’ll ignore it because I suspect that the outcome would’ve been the same during the November election. But wouldn’t it be nice if the seekers of such significant changes would seek out a higher level of participation, not lower? Cowards.
What I am wondering is why we don’t just ban marriage to any and all non-Christians? Why are we beating around the burning bush on this issue? I am not implying that homosexuals cannot be Christians or denying that many in fact are Christians. But there is no secular reason for this restriction and if the restriction is based on religion, then it violates the separation of church and state. People cannot force their religious beliefs on others. They shouldn’t even want to. Is “forced faith” even possible?
Marriage is a legal contract between two adult citizens that has absolutely nothing to do with any organized religion. People of differing religious beliefs can legally marry. Atheists can marry. Pagans can get married. In some states, with parental consent and a judicial waiver, even children as young as 13 are allowed to marry. Read that last one again. Wow.
So how are we possibly justifying limiting consenting adult homosexuals’ access to this legal institution?
Easy. Because some Christians call homosexuality an abomination and some non-Christian intolerants just think it’s gross. Therefore they have decided that because of their own personal beliefs, homosexuals are not allowed the freedoms allowed to all other citizens, both believers and non-believers. It is indefensible.
I know, that the bible says “Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.” (Lev 18:22). But it also says “And the man that committeth adultery with another man’s wife, even he that committeth adultery with his neighbour’s wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.” (Lev 20:10). No one is trying to put adulterers to death, so we clearly accept that our government laws are not required to align with the bible’s instruction. I’m glad we got that cleared up.
No one’s superstition or prejudices should be allowed to limit the freedoms of another person. Homosexuality poses absolutely no threat to anyone in this country. It really is that simple.
People can talk about the sanctity of marriage, but we all know that heterosexuals, including some good god-fearing politicians that support this discrimination, ruined whatever sanctity there was in marriage a long time ago. And if allowing homosexuals to marry somehow sullies your own marriage, then there was a serious weakness in that union to begin with. In reality (whether people choose to live in it or not), allowing gay marriage will have absolutely no affect on heterosexual marriage.
People will talk about the negative effects on the children of gay parents, but it could be argued that society’s open discrimination is more the cause of trauma than the loving union at home. Not to mention that the lack of conclusive evidence of these negative effects. Some recent studies have indicated that children with lesbian and gay parents show more empathy for social diversity. And we all know how negatively viewed empathy is these day.
Stop being assholes to my friends. They have asked for nothing but the exact same rights and freedoms that every other citizen takes for granted. They should’ve never had to ask for it. We should be ashamed that they have to fight so hard for it now. I know I am.
This ban will not stand the test of time. Even the N.C. State Speaker of the House, Thom Tillis said “I think it will be repealed in 20 years.” But at some point the federal government will legalize gay marriage for all citizens. And when it finally does, all of the “liberty defenders” out there that sat silent during this and the other twenty-nine states’ attack on the freedoms of homosexual will all start to cry about state’s rights. Bullshit! So far, thirty states have gotten this one dead wrong. There is no way to defend such clear discrimination towards innocent and nonthreatening American citizens. It is bigotry.
Bigotry is the state of mind of a “bigot” a person obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices, especially one who exhibits intolerance or animosity toward members of a group. (wikipedia)
Bigotry: noun, 1. Stubborn and complete intolerance of any creed, belief, or opinion that differs from one’s own. 2. The actions, beliefs, prejudices, etc., of a bigot. (dictionary.com)
And I’m guilty as hell. I am completely intolerant of bigots.